Intro to Bondage Play

 Julie Matthews & Sativa Grace in the Barbara Bondage Set by Colette & Sebastian • Photo by Jason Lee

{ Guest blog post by Ben Stanford from Australia-based Toys4sex }

Bondage, Blindfolds and Handcuffs
What better way to offer yourself up to the delights of sensual pleasure than by being bound with some silk sashes or rope? Quite simply, it’s exhilarating to be powerless to do anything but revel in the delights your lover bestows upon you. 

Silk sashes such as the Temptress Eye Mask for example, are just about the best thing you can use. They don't bunch up, feel light on the skin, and they tighten easily when pulled against your wrists which means they can be easy to untie.

Azalea Jeanette in the Operator Tube Dress • Photo by Israel Perez

Handcuffs are another well suited choice. For a start, fluffy handcuffs like the Python 18K Gold Leather Cuffs look very kinky. And whereas the idea of being arrested by a cop can be very hot. Metal is cold to the touch and very erotic so it quickly becomes something you can enjoy.

Azalea Jeanette in the Operator Tube Dress • Photo by Israel Perez

Pleasure and pain are not always opposites; sometimes they both feed off each other to create the desired effect. Of all the forms of like kink, erotic spanking is perhaps the most common; almost half of us have indulged at some point.

See our Spanking Fetish collection, featuring a variety of premium leather crops by Fräulein Kink
The best way to deliver the utmost pleasure is with the use of paddles, browse to your favorite adult shop online and find a narrow but strong paddle that can deliver a broad sting.  Consequently a large round leather paddle is wonderful for newbies who want to start with a gentle paddling.

With a warm-up, with the right intensity and with a lover who knows what they’re doing, spanking can give you a delicious rush of sexual pleasure. To suppress the pain of repeated smacks, it triggers the release of endorphins, the happy brain chemicals that give you the most incredible high you can imagine.

Have some fun in the Pure Tentation Open Girdle Skirt by Maison Close

That’s partly because the buttocks are one of the main erogenous zones for both men and women which are full of sexual arousal nerves. Happily for us, each spank can stimulate our senses and direct waves of pleasure through to our genitals.

And then there’s the psychological side. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of helplessness and vulnerability you get from being bent over your lover’s lap, totally exposed.